Contacting Me
Regarding "exchanging" links - I don't do it. Any email I receive that suggests that we exchange links to boost our ranks in search engines will be deleted. Since I don't do this for money, drumming up traffic is not my primary goal. If you wish to link to my site, I'm grateful. If you wish to suggest your site for me to link to, please do so. However, if the site does not meet my criteria, it will not be included in Lilith, and I will not email you to explain why. My criteria basically is: will women be interested in the site, or does it cater to women? One hint: if your site has the words "barely legal" on it anywhere, you shouldn't bother to submit it to me.
More guidelines to make both of our lives easier:
- If you're a plain old turnkey adult products or lingerie store, don't bother. There are a million of you out there. I am really sick of seeing the same PVC nurse's costume over and over again. Also, I am affiliated with Libida, so you have to be as cool, if not cooler, than them if your store sells adult products. If you add value to the customer's experience or are different in some way, feel free to submit your url. By the way, the fact that you are women-run does not make any difference if it's obvious that you are a plain old turnkey adult products store.
- The fact that you have linked to my site does not in any way induce me to link to yours. I appreciate the link, but don't assume I will feel compelled to link to you simply because of that. That would be doing my visitors a disservice.
- Sites that run ads offensive to women will not be accepted, no matter how good the content. It's hard to appreciate a good site when you are being assaulted with ads promising "young teen pussy," etc. I have removed good sites in the past because of offensive ads or endless pop-ups.
- If your site is in the directory, and you want it moved to another category, please let me know.
- Please be patient! This site is a labor of love (lust) run by one person, who has a toddler, in her spare time. I will get around to looking at your site - I just can't promise it will be immediate, or even within a couple of months. If you contact me a couple of weeks after your first email to ask why I haven't responded, you will simply piss me off.
Please send all email and site submissions to webmistress@lilithweb.com